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Libra is the cardinal-air sign ruled by Venus. This means heart processes through the mind. Libra is an active and sociable lover who enjoys having people around them as much as their intimacy. They are generally sensual and passionate lovers whose love of luxury and beauty penetrates the bedroom and the relationship. They are the peacekeepers of the zodiac and weigh all sides and situations equally as such they often have difficulties in making hard and fast decisions. This can be frustrating for their loved ones as they vacillate between this and that...one way and another. Libra needs attention and the company of other people and when deprived of that they can sink into a very real depression and lose their inspiration. They are people oriented and enjoy the stimulation of having their loved ones and friends an active part of their life. This often creates a problem when the lover feels no more important then their best friend. Libras are all around charming and good natured even when they don't want to be and they can actively stifle any personal complaints until they reach the boiling point. When a Libra has allowed the scales to become unfairly tipped they often lash out explosively. Surprising their mates who have come to see only their gentle and peaceable exterior. Libras love romance and all of its finest attributes from flowers, to poetry to love songs. They like the accessories that come along with being in love and the state of being in love itself...is often their primary focus in life. Whether it is being in love with their life, their job or their person.....they want to feel the connection of their heart...to their world and their mind.
Libra Sexuality: Libras generally prefer the romantic, tender and extravagant extensions of sexuality and lust. They like the goodies, the romantic gestures, the love thoughts left in their morning mail. Love is an idealized vision to a Libra and it comes complete with setting, tone and atmosphere. They often are hesitant to speak their likes and dislikes and it is important to coax them into speaking their minds. Rough and coarse interludes are usually a no-no and the more artistically pleasing and overtly romantic the better.
The long term story: Libras need variety in the people around them. They feel most comfortable and secure in peaceful and harmonious settings and wilt when there is negativity or turmoil. The enjoy a partners receptivity to doing 'stuff' for them, running errands or taking the imitative on a 'couple' project. They have an amazing reservoir of strength behind them that can be startling and they usually have remarkable minds behind their beauty. They enjoy having a pleasing and pretty home and a lot of attention goes into the process of making life beautiful. Including ignoring some of the harsher realities and avoiding any kind of actions that can disturb the peace or status quo. They also have tempers and when they feel the scales have become to unequal can explode suddenly.
Positive Traits in Love: Demonstrative, affectionate, playful, sensual, easy going, gentle, fair, giving, receptive.
Negative traits: Indecisive, self centered, detached, temperamental at times, envious, dishonest.
What Libra likes: Romance in all of its glory, Harmony, Beautiful things, Attention & admiration, Having people around, Intelligence, Creativity & imagination, Gentleness, Feeling supported.
What Libra Dislikes: Criticism, Loud arguments, Being forced into decisions, Coarseness/crudeness, Confusion situations, Disloyalty, Lack of enthusiasm, Apathy.
Libra Love Keywords: Romantic, creative, artistic, loving, generous, pleasant, sensual, indecisive, argumentive, envy and jealousy.
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